Faq

How and when do I RSVP?
When you’re ready, head to the RSVP link on our website’s main page - you will be redirected to a survey. Once there, follow the instructions & prompts. Please note that one survey is required PER GUEST, meaning that both you and your plus one will need to complete one! We kindly ask that you RSVP by August 27, 2025. It’s never too early to RSVP so please lock in once you know your plans!
How do I get there and where should I stay?
Please see the Travel page for information about transportation and accommodations, and feel free to reach out to Sil with any questions!
What should I wear?
The attire is dressy casual. It will be held completely outdoors, so thin high-heeled shoes are discouraged. Warmer layers (e.g., sweater, throw, jacket) are recommended for nighttime as we’re in the Catskills and it can get chilly at night.
Are children allowed?
After speaking to people who have been hitched in the past, we have decided to make this an adult-only event! This will allow the parents to fully let loose and have fun, not to mention the vast land and multiple bonfires could be hazardous for tiny humans.
Will there be an open bar?
Absolutely!
Will there be toilets?
This is a valid question considering we will be on a plot of raw land without running water! But yes, we will have clean, comfortable restrooms that will be connected to a portable power and water supply.

What days should I plan to be there?
The only wedding festivities will be held on Saturday, Sept 27 so we recommend booking your hotel from Friday-Sunday, but no judgment if you’ll need an additional recovery day before heading home!
Will there be an indoor option?
The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will be held completely outdoors. We will have a large canvas event tent to provide shelter during the reception.
Will there be electricity?
We will have generators on the land as well as a portable power bank that can be used to charge phones if needed, however, we strongly recommend you fully charge your phone before the event.
Can I bring a date?
We ask that you restrict the attendees in your party to those listed on the email correspondence (e.g., save-the-date and invitation). If you didn’t receive a plus one and would like to bring a guest, please contact Sil or Mesh. If you have a plus one, remember to include the names of both party members when you RSVP.
Where should I park?
We ask that, if driving, you park along the street outside the entrance to the land. There is plenty of space and we will display signs to guide you and outline the boundaries of our property. We will be arranging a charter bus to and from the hotel block for those who express interest. If you decide to drive, we ask that you plan a safe drive home (e.g., assign a designated driver) and PLEASE DO NOT DRINK AND DRIVE.
Who should I contact with questions?
Please reach out to Sil (646-315-5066) or Mesh (917-387-6544) via text, WhatsApp, or social media (e.g., Facebook Messenger) with questions leading up to the day of our event. On the day of the event, please text Natasha (416-524-3047).